Thanks for clarifying Hanz.
Personally, I only sell and buy as 'merchandise', only exchange gifts as 'gift'. I rather do things the 'right' way, but that's just me.
I've been burnt twice now in 6+ years of collecting. The worst was a trade with a member of TZ-UK. I sent him two high end G-Shocks in exchange for a Mears, and received nothing. Never again will I trade unless the other party sends me the item first. Let's face it, I have 9,000+ posts on WUS, 3,000+ posts on Watchlords... everybody knows who I am, everybody knows they can trust me. If somebody claims they are worried to send first, I ask "why would they worry?", truth is they aren't worried, they know they can deal with me with 100% confidence. Alarm bells start to ring.
The other scam was when buying my first MM300 off Ebay, thought I was getting a 'good deal'. I Paypal'd the funds, nothing was sent. Paypal was awesome - they took the $$$ back from the dodgy MF and paid straight back into my account. That's the advantage of doing things the right way. Then I bought a MM300 from a well known collector, paid a little more, but was 100% confident in the service. And never looked back.
Buy the seller, not the watch, not the deal. You may pay a little bit more but you'll get your watch and you'll never be wondering "is it real?"
As for misrepresenting the watch value to avoid duties. I will do this if the buyer insists, but he must understand that if anything goes wrong, insurance will only cover the stated value, not the true value. Fine on a cheap watch where insurance is not worth it, but IMO not worth the risk on a pricey watch. Just my opinion, others are happy to take the risk. IMO when buying the watch you should consider the possibility of import duty as part of the purchase price, and maybe even insurance on shipping. Watch arrives and you don't have to pay duty? Bonus!
If you can't afford to insure a car or house, then you can't really afford that car or house - you need to look at something cheaper. No different with watches IMO. Others are less risk averse than me, they have more $$$ to play with, or they like to gamble, or they are just desperate to get the cheapest price no matter the risk, but for me, the stress and worry is not worth it. If I am already paying thousands of dollars, why not save that little bit more to pay for import duty and insurance?
Sad thing about dealings in forums is you are only as good as your last deal.
It doesn't matter if the person has 10000 posts or 1000 positive feedback... when the time that someone decides to scam... he will say that he is an old timer, senior member and etc... but truth is we will never know.
Having a wall of references does not mean that he is automatically innocent.
I am used to buying from a few reputable sellers overseas... paid by wire transfer... risky? Yes.
Now even so, I know what I am getting myself into.
If that particular person decided to pull a fast one and so unlucky that it's on me, then what do I have?
Even if I am the innocent party, because of the huge amount of posts and feedbacks the seller has, does it automatically mean I am guilty? No.
But that's the point... IF he wants pull a fast one, who better then someone who lives a couple of thousand miles away and absolutely no chance of me getting my plight heard?
I remember a couple of years back, someone over at WUS got conned. A fellow Malaysian but working in China iirc.
The Malaysian has next to no feedback and is pretty new.
Seller was considered reputable in the US.
Maybe he thought it was a good idea to scam someone as far as China but the Malaysian was adamant.
At 1st, his complaints all fell of deaf ears... ppl even coming out to say that HE was the scammer.
Imagine the stress and anger.
But he persisted and somehow got hold of some evidence.
He was exonerated at the end but still, it's against a username on cyberspace... the scammer can still make a comeback by just being patient, create a new handle and start being active in posting... do some small seiko deals, strap deals and when his reputation grew, there he go again...
Like I said, there is no guarantee.
I too would like to agree with Donald's view, only enter into the deal being prepared to lose whatever you have committed. It's not that we are rich and have money to burn.
It's that certain people have different threshold towards risk.
Some take more, some avoid it altogether.