Would like to share my 2 cents.
My wife would insist that she has a fine lady size time piece before we move into the "share" territory.
Hence I got a 31mm Rollie for her, the rest of my time piece, although technically mine, we share them every now and then.
Lately she's taken a liking to bigger size watches, I hardly see her wear her Rollie anymore.
It's easier for the ladies, they have choices of time piece for either gender, while men can/should/prefer to wear men's watches.
I have yet to see her wear my 44mm PAM though, although I've ordered a custom made shorter strap for "us", I can't wait to see how it'll look on her. My wife has really tiny wrist and she wore my 39mm Mark XVI loosely.
Personally, I got turned on by chix in masculine big watches. Hence I'm hesitant in getting a metal strap men's watch for meself, all my watches are leather strap. It offers the flexibility of being on her wrist or mine.
Guys, how does your misses wear your Rollie? I mean there will be at least 1 link size difference in the bracelet right? Or you guys are fortunate to share the same wrist size with your wife?
Dennis : I agree with you, my wife is really clumsy when wearing watches, she got a deep scratch on her Rollie on the 2nd month, sigh... at time I fear for my watches. I can at least justify that PAM has a military heritage and it's meant to look rugged. I dread the day that I got meself a nice dress watch and she scratch through it in no time... Like what she did to my Montblanc (Story for another day).