IMHO watch winders are only good for automatic perpetual calendar watches. Other than that, it's just a big waste of money. Some cheap winders may do more harm than good.
It only takes a few seconds to a minute to set the time, date and wind. The act of doing so "connects" the owner to the watch in my opinion.
If you have "too many" watches, then it is time to stream down the collection to a handful that you would wear and have sentimental value to you.
It's all gears and springs after all, like a car it should be run once a while and also rest in between too.