For me, jealousy, if handled in a positive and sporting manner, will bring great and dynamic results. For if handled via the said manner, it shall work as a motivation for us to work smarter and harder to drive us to that ultimate goal.
But if jealousy is handled via the "sour grape" manner, the results are going to be disastrous. Based on my real life experience, a lot of times, the sour grape community, when they see people getting better or at times even better than them themselves, they start to pick reasons to condemn those better than them. Resulting, they die as a very lonely, empty and saddening person. Because all their lives, all they do is busy getting jealous at others while others are busy chasing their dreams and putting their dreams into reality.
To be honest, I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth. My academic status maxed out at college diploma. I started everything from scratch. But I didn't give up and continued striving to the life I enjoy today. But nothing to shout about though. Because I'm always readily motivated by those better than me.
There's a saying from the late First lady of United States, Eleanor Roosevelt -
Great minds discuss ideas.
Average minds discuss events.
Small minds discuss people.
***this message is strictly from my POV and my own personal experience and not intended to direct to anyone in this forum or cause any conflicts. No pun intended.
cheerio peeps