Manburg!! why guessing my sex, i thought my nick is feminine enough to show it!! no?? lol~
In defense of myself, I had never given that much of an attention to anyone's nick to actually be able to tell whether he's a man or a woman. In your case, I only realized it by the nature of some of your statements which was then confirmed by this thread. Truth be told, I still wouldn't know whether a particular member is a man or a woman even if he/she uses nick such as Awek, Amoi, or Tangachi!
n nways, whether im female or male also doesnt really matter isnt it 
Yes. But to my mind, it's good actually for the male members to know that the member he is communicating with is a female, so that in their conversations, no dirty jokes, sexually offensive remarks or anything of the same nature are uttered which in the end would only affect the good-natured environment of the forum. A gentleman wouldn't want to hurt the feelings of a lady.
and, so, whats ur sincere opinion on this? lol
Ok, this is my take. You don't want to tell us the exact relationship that you're having with this person, but you told us that he's a guy, he's a friend, and you have to deal with him often. Since you said he's a friend, that rules out any male member of your family.
In order to give you a worthy advice, one would need to know the nature of the relationship, because that advice would vary depending of the identity of that guy. For this purpose, and based on your story, I would narrow them down to three people - he's either your boss, your office-mate, or ... your lover.
1. Your boss
You've got two choices. Either you learn to cope with him and his attitude/behaviour, or you find another job. Because it's a waste of time to argue with your boss, as in my book, the boss is always right, even when he's wrong. Especially if he is a boss as in your description - it's very unlikely that he will change his ways just for or because of you.
2. Your office-mate
Avoid him at all cost. If you're obliged to have contact with him due to work reasons, keep it professional, minimal and on need basis only. I mean, why do you want to entertain, give face, or give in to him if all he does is to piss you off all day and night? There are a lot of other people in this world who are much nicer and courteous (such as MWF members
) that you could have conversations with. I have a standing motto - be nice only if you're treated nicely.
3. Lover
This one is tricky. Do you love him? If you do, then there's no need for any more discussion. Love conquers everything! I mean, if you do love him, such behaviour (e.g. always wants to win in argument) is just an insignificant trait in a person. Instead of getting fired up, why don't you try to understand him instead? You might have known this, but let me just reiterate this fact - a man is an EGOIST when it comes to dealing with his woman, the only difference is the size of that ego. The earlier you understand this and learn how to tackle it, the better your love life will be. The cardinal rule is, DON'T HUMILIATE YOUR MAN IN FRONT OF OTHERS.
But if you do not love him (which kinda ironic since you call him your lover
), then the best solution is to just dump him. There are a lot of much nicer and lovable men out there (my reliable source says that watch lovers are one of them
).
So, which one is which?
